Preparing your teen for the real world

I’m seeing this conversation online again and having been deeply impacted myself, I want to address it. But first, I respect that you’re here. Every week (if you’re an OG, that’s over 3 years!) you’re reading my emails for nuggets of insight into your teen and tips to navigate these very real and difficult challenges. […]

The Art of Saying “No” …

This takes emotional reactions to a new level! Setting limits and saying ‘No’ to your reactive teen WITHOUT the massive blow up, fit throwing or damaging property in the process is possible……when you understand a few key things first. The Boundary Block The dilemma lies in the necessity of saying “no” – an essential part […]

Gentle Parenting creates lazy, entitled teens

You hear about it every day on social media. Parents and experts espousing this unachievable fantasy of raising a respectful teen without using generations old methods to teach your teen what’s right and wrong. (YOU: shaking your head) Pfft!! You’re thinking: “Good for you, whatever your name is. I’m raising my teen to succeed in […]

5 Ways to break the cycle of constant arguing with your teen

Having real, calm conversations with your teen as if you’re actually on the same page and speaking the same language isn’t just a pipe dream… …even if the arguing is currently wearing down your patience until you feel raw and reactive. Let’s get real. If you’ve got a teen at home, you’re no stranger to […]

Divide and Conquer: When Your Teen Exploits Parental Differences

If you’ve been feeling like there’s a growing tension and deepening chasm between you and your partner about how to discipline your teen, you’re not alone. Many couples experience this and it can be incredibly stressful even if you had multiple conversations about how you were going to raise your children. Don’t worry, I’ve got […]