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Hi, I’m Aly

Welcome to THE judgement free space for parents of tweens and teens doing one of the hardest jobs… without any training!

Pull up a chair, take a deep breath, and dig into my FREE tools to quickly reconnect with your teen that puberty exchanged for a moody, defiant stranger. 

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Nobody plans to have teens

You used to be close until they changed overnight.

Your sweet, friendly, smiley, child who used to love hugs is now a self-absorbed, ungrateful, disrespectful teenager who answers every question with, ‘I don’t know’, or shuts you out completely.

I was your teen, only WORSE.

Despite fumbling through my own childhood trauma and ADHD, plus my oldest having Autism Spectrum Disorder and ADHD, I broke the cycle with my sons and raised confident, emotionally intelligent, trustworthy young men who avoided the pitfalls of hormonal hijacking. Today, I’ve helped thousands of parents just like you to do the same.

How?

Day to day moments of connection, open communication and healthy boundaries. Rinse and repeat (even when your teen is being a jerk!).

It’s the step by step, proven framework that I LOVE TO TEACH because it ends the painful disconnection and exhausting power struggles of the adolescent years so your teen sees you as their ally, not the enemy.

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Understanding Your Teen’s Brain

The answer to why your teen is being so difficult.

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Improving Communication

The secret to getting your teen to listen AND talk more.

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The key to processing emotions without projecting them.

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How to transform your moody, hormonal teen into a compliant, respectful human without the daily nagging or punishments

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LOVE your content! I’m a Paediatrician in Colorado and refer all my families with teens to look at your programs. Your work is amazing and has been game changing. You’ve been the best, singular resource for our families in our Adolescent Mental Health Clinic.
Dr. Mike M.
My daughter didn't get up in time for school and I was feeling really frustrated. I left her alone and an hour later she was up. I stayed calm and got curious about why she over slept. Guest what? She told me what was bothering her and why she couldn't sleep. I listened and then we hugged!
Kristin C.
My son hugged me today when he came home from school and said, 'Love you, mama'. It's been so long since that happened.
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