How Could This be Happening
Russia invades Ukraine. I sat on the edge of the bed in shock and started to cry. There’s already so much sadness and pain in the world, like the laws in Texas and Florida, and now this. It all feels like too much when I feel drained, so what can I do? A few days […]
My teen is failing and doesn’t care
Is your teen failing school and doesn’t seem to care at all about their studies or their future? You are not alone. One of the most common frustrations I hear from parents is their teen won’t do their schoolwork, won’t even try, and worse yet, they don’t seem to care… at all. You’re so frustrated […]
Get Off Your Phone!
Seriously though, how frustrating is this? You’re not asking your teen to rebuild the Taj Mahal. You just want a few things done before dinner and are doing everything in your power to stay calm, knowing they’ll waste their time on social media or gaming. Again!! When you ask your teen why the task didn’t […]
Why Are You Being Difficult
It’s hard not to take it personally. Feelings of rejection are normal and giving yourself space to grieve the person you knew and relationship you had is important, so your pain doesn’t become retaliation. Your teen’s brain is fundamentally changing so there’s no going back. They’re not trying to be difficult; they’re going through something […]
I Still Have Nightmares About This
If you were compliant, whether from fear or free will, you had the privilege of being in the safe majority with your parents. If you disagreed with your parents or were defiant, you understood the shame and loneliness of dissention. What side were your parents on? Were they ‘law abiding citizens’ who did what they […]
Mom! I can’t pause the game!
PEW! PEW! PEW! The constant nagging to get your teen to prioritize their time or energy into literally anything else feels like pushing a boulder uphill. When you ask for the simplest things with reasonable notice, you get snapped at or perhaps more annoying… “Mom! I can’t pause the game!” Your life doesn’t have a […]